Ham Kaya Hain ?
Kabhi Kabhi Sochane ke liye majboor hona padta hai…ki ham kaya hain ?
M/c ? Jis ke liye …..Bhavnaaon , Rishton aur Values ka koi mahatva nahi hai ?
Yaa Rang Manch par hone wale Jeevan ke Natak ke Paatra ….Jisko tarah tarah ki Bhumikayen karni hoti hain…
Ek Insaan ? Bada Bhai ? Chotey Bhai ? Husband ? Son ? Aur na jane kaya kaya ?
Problem tab mehsoos hoti hai jab ham apni taraf se har Bhumika main khare utarne ki koshish karte hain ….even karte bhi hain ….but response kabhi kabhi waisa nahi milta …jaisa milna chahiya …..Aur ham apne ko Thaga saa mehsoos karte hain…..kintu karte wahi hain jo kar rahe hote hain ….kayo ki rishta ham tod nahi saktey ….esa hame lagta hain ki ham kisi se alag ho jaayeinge to usko takleef hogi….!
Par apni Bhavnaao ko chot pahuchane dete hain ….lagataar ….baar baar….nirnatar………
Log aap se judey rahna chahte hain….aur aap unke liye wo sab karte hain jo unko chahiye …but kabhi kabhi aap ko wo nahi milta unse jo milna chahhiye……agar milta bhi hai to SAMAY par nahi …yaa phir yaad dilane par….jiska koi mahatv nahi rah Jata …SAMAY beetane ke baad….!!
Kal Ek SMS kiya mere masi ke bete ne …..was related to any relation with the heading ‘ Best Lines Ever Used in Any Relationship’ – “ I Trust You Blindly , But Please Never Prove Me A Blind “.
Hame pata Sab hota hai but ham kuch cheejon ko andekha kar ke relation maintain karne ki koshish karte rehte hain……..Ek Antheen Safar ki tarah jismain kabhi bhi dhokha hone ki Sambhavana bani rehti hai…..
Achanak pata lagta hai …..jisko aap Safar keh rahe the …..wo aapka nahi tha ….aap kisi aur ke liye chal rahe the Aur wo Saathi Door kahin Nikal Jata hai, kisi aap jaise dusare ki talash main…..ab aap uske kisi kaam ke nahi reh jaate …
Biological relations main takleef kam hoti hai agar kuch esa ho ….but mere liye agar esa koi relation jo biological nahi hai aur aap bahut Shiddat ke saath , Vishvaas ke saath usko Nibha rahe hain but Samne wala kabhi kabhi aap ko esa ehsaas kara deta hai ki aap sirf uske liye Kaam Aane wali Vastu hain Tab BAHUT Nirasha aur Dard Hota Hai….!!
Mujhe Hua hai …Kai baar…lekin main Nahi Badla …Aur naa hi Badlunga….!
Man Udaas sa lag raha tha iss liye sab likh dala …!
Ek baat ki khushi aur Proud Hota hai ….ki ham Wo sab kar Rahe Hain jo Hame Karna Chahiye….Kisis Ke liye….Ham Khud Ko dhokha nahi de rahe…bhale issme hame sab theek aur zaroori / timely response naa de.
Things and situations can be managed ….but relation Should be Maintained , …..not Managed …….who manage relations ….never face self in Life’s Mirror.
Main Khush hoon…main esa nahi karta….Reshtey Maintain Rakhne ki Koshish karta hoon…..Zindagi kaa Aaina Mujhe Darayga Nahi…!!
Manish Singh
